T is for Touch #A2ZChallenge

“Touch is the first language we speak.” – Stephen Gaskin

I remember when I came out from ‘Womb Inn’, the doctor carefully took me in his hands and placed me by my Mommy’s cheek. I was pink and warm and her cheek was cold (maybe because of the airconditioning in the room). I loved this touch. After I was whisked away from there, the nurses handled me very gently. I liked being touched. Finally, when I was united with Mommy, she cuddled me. Her loving touch worked like a ‘wonder drug’. It reduced all the stress I was going through. Some ‘feel good’ hormones were released in my body which helped me bond better.

For the many days after I came home, whenever I fussed or cried, Mommy would cuddle me and touch me lovingly. I started feeling calm and secure with her. Day by day I started recognising everyone’s touch. I knew who was with me by their touch. Each one had a positive loving touch which helped me to grow day by day.

Now that I am have become much aware of my surroundings I still like to touch things which fascinate me. The refrigerator has many colourful magnets. At first I used to be attracted by the colours. One day Mommy was very close to these magnets and I put out my hand and touched one of them. 

Last week I was captivated with the Flamingo lampshade in the drawing-room. Mommy had switched it on and the pink flamingoes started glowing. It is a nice bright pink colour and once again I was fascinated by it. One afternoon Mommy and I were close to the lamp. I felt I would like to touch these glowing creatures. So I bent forward and tried to grab a flamingo. That day Mommy realised that I was attracted to bright colours and now I also wanted to touch not only them, but everything that catches my eye.

I also like to touch and explore new soft toys/ things (like my Dumbo) that Miss A, from time to time, keeps presenting me with. Today, I also explored my bright coloured rattle, which everyone thought was very heavy for me. Yes, I couldn’t pick it up but I touched and enjoyed playing with the bright yellow sun. I must confess that all that I touch is not always pleasing. I specifically don’t like my father’s touch, when he has not shaved. At that time he reminds me of a porcupine and I do get scared (of his quills). However, Miss A, Nani and Mommy always give the soft-soft feel.

Did you know that touch is actually the first language which babies speak and an important part of bonding? It helps us to grow. With each passing day, our nervous system is developing. This happens at an amazing pace and there are many connections which are taking place. These connections between the nerve cells help us to associate with the senses. Therefore, the way we feel, think and act all depends on our nervous system.

Thus a loving touch is very necessary for me!

Also Read: Theme Reveal, A – Arrival, B – Baby Cries, C – Colour, D – Diapers, E – Exercise, F – Fingers, G – Gym, H – Hair, I – Image, J – Juice, K – Kicking Around, L – Lullabies, M – Massage Time, N – Nani, O – Om and Other Mantras, P – Papa, Q – Queen, R – Rattles and Rolling Over, S – Sibling Love

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Well, about me I can say that I am a certified dentist, healthcare analyst, medical writer and above all a mother of a 6-year-old. Most of my day to day activities revolve around her and she is my inspiration to start this blog. As a mother, I experimented with a lot of new things for my little one in a quest to find the best for her. I just want to share my experiences of being a happy and content mum.

16 Comments

  1. April 23, 2020
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    I didn’t know that touch is the first language of babies. This was quite an enlightening and informative post for me.

    • Shubhra Rastogi
      April 23, 2020
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      Oh yes, touch is as important for babies as the other senses.

  2. April 23, 2020
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    Awww…thats so cute!! Touch is a very important sensory inout for an infant. Smell too .. great post as always Shubhra! ,As it hapoens i have written about baby toys today 😁

    • Shubhra Rastogi
      April 23, 2020
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      Thanks aunty

  3. April 23, 2020
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    Babies do love to touch and explore things. From spectacles to hangings on dresses to necklaces one might wear, babies have a keen eye to spot interesting items to touch.

    • Shubhra Rastogi
      April 23, 2020
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      Yes indeed!

  4. Noor Anand Chawla
    April 23, 2020
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    Touch works like magic even for us adults. The coronavirus is seriously challenging a basic human need to be touched.

    • Shubhra Rastogi
      April 23, 2020
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      Yes it is indeed

  5. April 23, 2020
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    I love your posts, beta. Touch is extremely important for babies, it is the way they communicate.

    • Shubhra Rastogi
      April 23, 2020
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      Thank you Aunty

  6. April 23, 2020
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    I didn’t know a touch meant so much to babies. I liked that part about the porcupine feel. That’s how it must feel like for babies! My post has something to do with a touch too – it’s about touchscreens!

    • Shubhra Rastogi
      April 23, 2020
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      Just hopping over to your site!

  7. Jyoti Jha
    April 23, 2020
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    This is a lovely post! Touch is the first language of a new born. You have elaborated it so well and beautifully. Thankyou for sharing this information.

    • Shubhra Rastogi
      April 23, 2020
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      Thanks Jyoti

  8. April 24, 2020
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    So wonderful that the baby is exploring the world around her through touch. This is certainly boosting her brain development and forging emotional bonds too!! ♥

    • Shubhra Rastogi
      April 24, 2020
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      Yes indeed

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